This is the tribute that I wrote for Rosa Gonzalez as part of the Project 2,996 in 2009. I will post another entry tomorrow and hopefully by next year, we’ll be able to ensure that tributes for all 2,996 victims are online.
Today, I remember Rosa Gonzalez, a victim of the terrorist attacks on the World Trade Center in New York on September 11th 2001. I’m writing this today as part of Project 2,996 and you can visit the site to read more tributes to the victims of 9/11. An amazing 1,081 people (so far) will be remembered formally this year through Project 2,996 but the purpose of the project is to let the world know that we will never forget. We will never forget the victims or the loss experienced by their families, friends, communities and indeed, the world.
Rosa Gonzalez was a single mother aged 32 and her 12-year-old daughter Jennifer meant the world to her. She was very much loved by all who knew her and as her brother-in-law Jeffrey said in a tribute to her on the Legacy site, “Rosa was also a beautiful and caring person that certainly did not deserve to die in this way… Rosa was a single mother that really making an effort to better herself and give her daughter the best upbringing possible. Her job with the Port Authority was another step towards success”.
Jeffrey and his wife took Jennifer in after 9/11. Shortly after the attacks, Rosa Gonzalez phoned her sister Migdalia from the 66th floor of 2 World Trade Center, told her she loved her and asked her sister to take care of her daughter. The New York Times tribute to Rosa quotes her sister Maria as saying, “Of course, Migdalia will take care of Jennifer. We will all take care of Jennifer. The situation is, we have to be strong for Jennifer.”
Rosa Gonzalez was one of seven sisters and she lived in New Jersey. It is clear that everyone who met her was taken by her infectious smile and friendly nature. As P. Martinez says on the Legacy site, “"I met Rosa a couple of years ago when she was working at the Housing Authority. She was always so happy and up-beat, kind and caring… My heart goes out to her daughter, I hope she'll always know what a great mother she had. I'm sorry Rosa that your life was cut so short”.
It is clear that Rosa stood out in the community and people remembered her once they had met her. This is evidenced by the number of people that expressed guilt at escaping from the Twin Towers themselves and their sadness of hearing of Rosa’s passing. I found the comments by her neighbour Cindy to be especially poignant as her grief was clear in her remarks: “It has taken me this long to be able to view this site. Rosa, Maggie and I lived in the same building and I still remember the day I was able to get home and found out Rosa wasn't. Sitting in the apartment with her family, posting pictures, leaving candles and flowers and waiting for any word at all. Although we were not close friends I will always remember the beautiful petite woman that Rosa was. I would give anything to be able to call her again to ask her to turn the music down!! Maggie I will always be here for you if you need me for anything”.
Rosa Gonzalez had been with her friend and colleague Genelle Guzman McMillan as they descended the stairs together and tried to escape from the World Trade Center. They had been holding hands but were separated as the building came crashing down. Genelle was the last person pulled out of the wreckage of the World Trade Center alive.
Rosa was one woman out of so many that died that day but she was a kind, caring and friendly woman who left behind heartbroken family, friends and co-workers and most importantly, her 12-year-old daughter Jennifer. I hope that I have succeeded in paying tribute to Rosa Gonzalez and that her daughter knows that people all around the world are thinking of her and her family on this anniversary of the attacks. Jennifer also left a tribute at the Legacy site: “hi my names jen rosa was my mother she was a very good person i love u and miss u so much we will never forgat u ever”.
I’ll be posting this one day early so as to assist the people at Project 2,996 in logging the names of this year’s participants. They have over a thousand entries to log after all!
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Thank you for this very well written tribute thank you for keeping my mothers memory alive id like to tell alittle more of our story I was 12 when 911 happened. My last memory of my mother, Rosa J Gonzalez was of her giving me a kiss on my forehead And telling me, she loves me as she walked away to the front door I was half asleep I watched her silhouette, leave thru the door not knowing it would be the last time i would see her. Later that morning I remember sitting in my classroom and someone coming in and saying that there was a plane that had gone into the towers. I remember sitting there thinking, I believe my mother works there on the 64th floor. My mother had recently started working there, and was very excited about the job to be able to provide for me and her. Not too long after that, I remember my family members coming to the school and many other family members coming to the school, attempting to retrieve their children. I was not allowed to leave with my family as they were not my mother. And I remember the principal sitting me in the office to calm me down as I cried Not knowing what was happening and then having to remain in the school to wait till much later to find out what had happened to my mother. My aunt later picked me up at the end of the school day and I remember the long quiet walk home as we both walked in silence. Until she stopped me And finally told me that my mother was in the towers that she had spoken to her before they fell and that my mother said she loved me and that they wer unsure where she was after that. It wasn't until later when my family spoke too Genelle Guzman-McMillan and Pasquale Buzzelli who were with my mother that we were able to piece together What happen. The group and Genelle hand in hand with my mother manage to come down from the sixty fourth floor and Once they reach, the 13th floor was when the building collapsed and they were separated that was the last time she was seen alive. Our family was one of the fortunate families to have been able to recover my mother. As an adult today many years later, it's such a vivid memory, like it happen yesterday. My aunt and her husband took me in and raised me as there own with so much love my mother would be pleased to know her sister kept her promise and still plays a i
A big part in my life My mother's very missed and loved by our family and will never be forgotten, along with all the other families.
I Love and miss you everyday mom I was so blessed to have you as my mother
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